Epic people give you a chance to be part of the group. I started here not really aware of how things typed come off as thoughts on the net. I am a bit full of my own ideas, partly due to a lot of experience, and came off rude and arrogant at times. People backed off for a while. I'm slow, but I got it, and have gradually become tolerable to read. Some folks here totally recognized the effort to be less of a dick and have posted on a thread or two of mine and completely normalized interaction. Nice. Thanks.