Basically, Dad wants to ski. Mom wants to ski a little and take care of the baby and also go to a spa. 5 y/o boy wants to learn. 1 y/o needs quality daycare (not that he will spend all day there).
So I want to make sure the resort has "other" stuff to do like tubing, ice skating, xc skiing, etc. This isn't going to be hardcore skiing every day.
These resorts seem to bubble to the top:
I imagine I can't go wrong.
I just worry a little with "access" to Snowmass and BC with a baby in tow.