did anyone else notice the OP posted just once and has yet to even log in again?
I find that mildly curious

I find that mildly curious




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Interesting thread...in the words of my lawyer responding to some ludicrous legal suit someone was trying to bring against me, "if anyone wants to sue you for any reason, they can"!
Not that this was a newsflash for me, but pretty much so sums up the litigous society we live in...skiing is an exciting sport partly because of the dangers of the sport...you ski, you stand a better chance of getting hurt in a variety of ways than if you stayed in bed that day. Sorry for the old man getting hit, but to sue goes against the understanding that there are certain inherent risks you take on when skiing. I also hate the "I'm not doing this for the money, its just the principle of the matter" crap. EVERYONE who sues sues for a fistful of George Washingtons, pure and simple! My suggestion...drop it...helping the old man to heal physically, rather than going through some protracted, 3-5 year legal action that will tear him apart mentally is hardly worth the effort...celebrate the fact that he is still on this good Earth and the two of you will have a story to tell your grandkids 10 or 20 yrs from now. Peace |
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did anyone else notice the OP posted just once and has yet to even log in again?
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One of the things about ski clothes. We can't tell how old the wearer is from behind.
We all try to avoid collisions. I have a great deal of difficulty believing that someone in their 40s to 50s would deliberately line up another skier on the slope, then try to take him out. From what I am reading, this is an accident, pure and simple. You have not mentioned what the conditions were, what the proficiency level of the other skier was, what the other skier was doing, or if your father was doing something that may have made his course more difficult to predict for the uphill skier. Before you go running off to court you better have firm answers to all of these questions. In addition, what did the other person do after the collision? Did he render assistance, call the ski patrol, apologize, ski away, or stand there and laugh? Personally, from the little information you have presented, and because I think that it was an accident, I believe that suing the other skier would be a knee jerk reaction to seeing your father with a severe injury. If your father has been skiing for as long as you said, then he knows as well as you do that skiing is a sport with inherent risks, and that it is very easy to be injured while skiing. In addition, what would happen to you if you hit someone else by accident? Should they sue you? And don't tell me that that will never happen, it can happen very easily. Hell, I am also a pretty good skier, and I skied over my instructor's skis (yes, I also take lessons) during my last course... last night! It can happen to all of us, it will happen to many of us, and if it does happen, the last thing we need is a lawyer's letter after it does happen. So calm down and look at it objectively. From what you know, if the other skier had hit me rather than your father, would you still be asking the same question? Dean. |
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did anyone else notice the OP posted just once and has yet to even log in again?
I find that mildly curious ![]() ![]() |
Did someone note that the OP is a busy person who is overall more interseted in my father's health than visiting the forum?
Actually, I did revisit the forum a number of times so not sure why it showed I only logged on once. Perhaps b/c the system kept me logged on?
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True, but it's going to depend on the state in which the collision occurred, and that state's ski law. It will also depend on the "assumption of risk" agreed to by purchasing a lift ticket/season pass. It might not hold up, but you'd likely get an argument from the defense that "collisions" are an inherent risk of the sport. You'll need to prove that the offending skier had a duty, he breached that duty, the injury was proximately caused by that breach, and there were damages. Sounds to me like you meet those criteria for negligence, so ruling in your favor is not out of the question.
Let me share my opinion, for what it's worth. Making an example out of the reckless skier is unlikely to stop others from skiing out of control. Liken it to other crimes and punishments. Consider: a college student is in an unfortunate situation and ends up imprisoned for a DUI accident. Are all of his college peers going to stop drinking excessively? I think not. In fact, I know not! Likewise, causing hardship for this skier is not going to stop anyone else from skiing out of control. It is terrible that this occurred, and you have every right to be upset. But remember, we all make mistakes, some with unfortunate repercussions. Trying to make an example out of him by him harm (albeit financial) might not be the way to go. Just my .02, as someone who has seen both sides of these sorts of situations. |
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Go ahead and be boggled - my recommendation stands:
Bottom line - skiing is a sport, it has inherent risks - you can no more sue for a collision injury, behind - above - below, anymore than you could for blindsided tackle in football. The appropriate recourse in such cases is 15 yards. Not money. Dogs bite veterinarians; you think they get to sue? Skiers ski down a hill with other skiers skiing at different levels and speeds with all sorts of nuances on frozen water particles with fixed and moving obstacles (i.e., people). What do you expect? That's right....occasional collisions. It's part of the game. Get over it. |
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Actually, it sounds like you do want to ruin his life. Being sued can be similar to a divorce or a bankruptcy in terms of the emotional stress and disruption involved. Since you want him to be publicly shamed so that other skiers "think about" him while skiing, it seems like you want to make the impact even more disruptive than your average lawsuit. Imagine going into the lodge and having people who know you and also read a ski mag point and whisper behind your back after you walk by. "There's that guy..." Not pretty, and your desire to add that shame component should make you question all your motives at least twice.
Sorry about your Dad. Hope he gets better, but I recognize that at his age his injuries probably are going to be felt for life one way or the other. That's hugely unfortunate. In skiing for roughly 69 years he probably somewhere along the way came to understand that sometimes skiers flail unpredictably on beginner slopes. |
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Yes - I think he came to his senses - either by himself; or after talking to 25 lawyers he told him there is nothing to be gained. In the remote possibility that some Bruiser or Deck ambulance chaser took the case on a lark, I am certain they would have told him to not discuss the case (of which there is none) - don't post anything on the internet - don't even look at the internet. Could you imagine what a lawyer would say if the first thing that leapt from a plaintiff's mouth was:
"hey....I asked on this skiing website and they said my dad could sue!!!, I want a pound of flesh...I want to make an example out of someone" |


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Bottom line - skiing is a sport, it has inherent risks - you can no more sue for a collision injury, behind - above - below, anymore than you could for blindsided tackle in football. The appropriate recourse in such cases is 15 yards. Not money. Dogs bite veterinarians; you think they get to sue? Skiers ski down a hill with other skiers skiing at different levels and speeds with all sorts of nuances on frozen water particles with fixed and moving obstacles (i.e., people). What do you expect? That's right....occasional collisions. It's part of the game. Get over it.
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Is it wrong that I laughed at this?
![]() By the way...is this all you going after this? What does your father think? Not once have you said you're acting on behalf of him. If he doesn't care to persue this than why are you so gung-ho about it? Just curious. And since you're the one who sounds like a total idiot, I think i'll go out tomorrow to A-Basin and ski my ass off just in spite. Besides...skiing like an idiot is the only way to ski. I guess you ski like a pansy? I sincerely hope your father is well and has many more years of skiing left. |
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Since your mentality seems to be that of a teenager, I'll stoop a bit to try to connect with you. I'd be happy to ski my ass off any day and we'll see who the real pansy is. I'm confident that even at my age I could probably give you a run for you money if not dust you entirely.
But to answer your first question, if you see anything funny about a 79 year old man getting slammed by a (probably ) irresponsible skiier then you're the definition of an idiot. With that said, back to being an adult. I'm just trying to get different perspectives on this issue. Yours is certainly one perspective. "Thanks." |

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Wow, dude. I'm sure i'm not the only one that laughed when you said your father was "prctically killed". When someone breaks an arm and you go off and say he practically got killed, i'm sorry, that's funny. Do I think the physical act of slamming into an 80 year old funny? NO. Do I think it's funny when someone over exaggerates their fathers injury to make it sound worse than it was....hilarious.
By your defensiveness, i'm gonna go out on a limb and say your father doesn't want this persued and I struck quite a sour note with my previous post. Thanks for stooping to my level though. I wouldn't have understood otherwise. FYI, i'm trying to hold onto my teenager mentality for as long as possible. Surely it beats going through life a bitter and vengeful person. I can't believe i'm saying this but maybe you should just let the whole ordeal go away. It sounded like a sincere accident so maybe you should do the Christian thing and forgive the guy. Not try to "make it hurt" or try to "make an example" of him. Sounds like you need to get off you high horse and look at it from all of our perspectives. |
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masonfl, the behavior you described in your first post reflects gross negligence and disregard for personal safety or the safety of others by the skier who hit your dad. I would want that skier removed from the slopes permanently, and think he should be fully accountable (financially and civilly) for his actions and damages. Making that happen is a matter of law and while i believe its actionable against the negligent individual, I don't think it could or should be able to enjoin third parties such as the ski resort or ski patrol. I have no idea if there are enough witnesses or evidence to pursue this to a trial or settlement, and really don't care. We are entitled not to have this kind of dangerous human missile imposed on us whether we are skiing in a class or just enjoying a recreational run.
On this website, we have witnessed or heard of fatalities and serious injuries from similar negligent acts. These have occurred in limited liability states, where the individual that cause a collision out of wanton negligence found no protection in the law, but unfortunately was protected by his minor age status. This thread amazes me that so many have apparently sympathized with the skier who hit your dad while in a ski school class. Here are links to some threads that show how outrageous the negligence of some other skiers can be, and the kind of response and sympathy in favor of the VICTIM, I am accustomed to hearing from this forum. BTW, hope your dad feels better and is skiing soon. http://forums.epicski.com/showthread.php?t=25078 http://forums.epicski.com/showthread.php?t=34509 http://forums.epicski.com/showthread.php?t=41972 http://forums.epicski.com/showthread.php?t=32243 http://forums.epicski.com/showthread.php?p=1008135 |
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masonfl, the behavior you described in your first post reflects gross negligence and disregard for personal safety or the safety of others by the skier who hit your dad.
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...Still there is a ton of information I don't know about this case, and admittedly wasn't even picturing a beginner slope. My guess was an intermediate slope, with an over-terrained bomber (assumptions being as they are, we're both making them).
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Not sure if it is a "just part of skiing mentality". Do I think some punk bombing a green run and using beginners as a human slalom is reckless? Yes. But I don't know anything really about your case, so it is hard to convict the guy who hit your dad. If I was skiing a harder run, came up on your dad, caught an edge lost control and fell, slid into him and hurt him, I would immediately apologize, make sure he is ok, contact patrol if needed, and maybe buy him a beer at the end of the day to try to make things up to him. I would expect some form of written warning from patrol, and for my insurance to pay what ever his insurance doesn't. I would hope that the victim would not try to make an example of me. Guess that is why some of us are not hoping on the bandwagon.
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...Just saying, if I did hit someone, it would be an accident, and I'd want them to cut me some slack. Like to do the same if they hit me, the wife or kids.
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Well said.
Interestingly I've never met a serious skier or rider in real life who didn't feel pretty much the same. |