Thanks everyone for the info.
Brock - as much as we'd love to try Jay, that's going to have to be another trip.
It's a 6+ hour drive to get us up there, so hopefully we can keep the driving to a minimum once we're in the area.
We're all solid intermediate skiers... getting much better at steeper terrain and bumps, but we'd all probably enjoy a day at BW to take it easy.
From what's been said here I think I'm leaning towards 1 day at BW, 1 day at Cannon, 1 day at Wildcat, then 1 day at whichever of Cannon or Wildcat we'd like some more time at. Unfortunately it looks like Cannon and Wildcat are the farthest apart.
Maybe if we stay at BW the whole time? Looks that that's more or less in the middle... 30-45 min drive to each.
Anyways, thanks for the input. I'm looking forward to getting a break from our VT routine over the holiday weekend!