Yeah.... no. You're confusing TGR with Newschoolers.
Sounds like you reap what you sow.
Not that I haven't met and skied with folks through Epic too, but with the exception of the Tahoe Gathering 18 months back, most of the ones I've skied with (including Josh) are also on TGR.
Maybe I just don't look around the non-established threads enough these days, but TGR seems to have mellowed significantly. People have to be reminded to ask JONGs for nekkid pics.