Josh, what I can't for the life of me figure out is why in hell you have the incessent need to be 'right' and 'best' all the time. Grow up, bud. The world spins just fine without all your narcissistic 'win'. Bottom line, if someone doesn't want to do something, why do you care? Its their choice even if its largely mental rather than physical. Its about them.. not you. Imagine that.