Valid point nolo. At a time when my Hockey career was waning and my love for skiing was taking more of a hold on me, my boys were getting to the age where it was time to decide if their Winter sport was going to be Hockey, or Skiing? And it wasn't the fact that it was a hard choice to make, or a financial one. It was more of there wasn't time for both. All the years of playing, coaching and refereeing hockey were getting to me. I really dreaded the thought of spending the next 20 years hanging out in rinks at all hours of the day. I had already spent 5 to 6 days a week in hockey rinks. But, the push from me was the fact that we could all participate as a family at the ski slopes. But, it really was their choice. While i took up Ski Patrol and worked onslope security, the resort provided me with a family pass and discount lessons for the boys. I took advantage fully as there was a wonderful kid program there. Ten plus years of lessons and race programs as well as the other perks competing at various events at other resorts around the region.
Though it was wonderful for all, the job as a Patroller was taking it's toll me. It got to be more of a job than I ever wanted it to be. when the boys grew out of the programs and the politics of inside the management got to be a hassel, and the free skiing got less and less as our little Resort grew too fast in my opinion, the pressures got to me as did the carnage. A few too many really bad accidents and the attitude of the new breed of skiers/boarders. The fun was gone. Although i wouldn't have traded the good times, the friends I made, the stories shared around the Patrol room and the bars after skiing, the luster had tarnished and I felt burned out. The joy as you say is the memories of the good things i did. The help i provided, lives saved, the friends made. That is the only pay I got.
Even at that, I'd do it all again. The skiing? The job made me a much better skier. Having to ski in all conditions, rain, ice, storms, sleet, powder, the whole thing. When the cliental could pack it in and head for the cars, we had to still be skiing. I skied shit and weather not many people would. The benefit being able to ski anywhere in any conditions. You add that with all the good people I have met including here at this website and it's enough.
At least you got real money. But when the money is gone, there's much more. There's skiing.